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36 minutos atrás, lukao1993 disse:

Sinto muito, mas acho que você não se livrou do vício ainda, apenas o contraiu um pouco. Creio que você consegue apenas se segurar mais pois sabe que após os 15 dias vai ter a recompensa.

15 dias é o tempo de ciclo recomendado, se eu ficar muito tempo já sinto umas paradas não legais. Enfim, se você fode regularmente pode ficar no fap a vida toda. 

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Voltando ao NOFAP!

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Like talk to someone new.

“Talk to the the guy in the elevator? Dude are you nuts, I don’t know him!” No, you just pull out your phone, tilt your head down about forty five degrees and stare, like a statue. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU? That could have been a great connection, but instead you cared about what Joey on Facebook was doing (some dude you haven’t seen in five years).

Fuck Joey.

So. Here’s the thing. I’m not a jackass, I’m just upfront and blunt and I know what’s going on in your head and the inner battle you are dealing with so I’m here to help. I’m gonna lay out the basics on how to talk to anyone, anywhere. Enjoy.

Level 1

Stop thinking about every trivial detail and just go. It’s very easy to get caught up in a merry-go-round of madness and wonderWhat If about everything in life. Dont. When you see someone new you want to engage with, commit to that decision and do it within three seconds. You probably feel shitty anyways from just the thought of what it might be like to talk to them, so you might as well just go ahead otherwise you would have felt that way for nothing. 

If you are afraid of what other people may think about you, thenremember that they may be wondering the same thing about you. “Why is this nerd with the fugly backpack looking at me? Am I dressed funny? Does my breath smell?” There are 7 billion people on this planet, what makes you so think that they are only thinking about you? Relax, you aren’t special. Just do your best, try not to die and shut the fuck up.

If you think people will think you are weird, then ask yourself what good is it to be normal? Some of the biggest improvements in our civilization have been due to people that think differently and outside-the-box. There is no such thing as “normal.” Normal was defined by someone no better than you and I. Some dude with a penis, two arms and two legs. Be yourself. “Regular” isn’t sexy.

If you are feeling that the majority of people are looking at you odd then remember that the majority of the world thought that the earth was flat. Majority doesn’t mean shit. No one will remember you or what you did a few days from now. Do you remember what you had for lunch a few days ago?

If you are worried about them rejecting you, then know that with every attempt you make, that feeling will naturally subside. It’s just biology. You become immune to it. 

Level 2

Make eye contact, smile, say hello. You don’t need to put a big grin on your face, just give a sly smile and say hello. They may say hello back or they may just kind of nod. This is all acceptable. Remember, everyone communicates differently. The goal here isn’t to have a long conversation, it’s just to say hi to someone new.

If you can’t make eye contact because of fear, then remember a time in your life when you were THE SHIT. A time when your peers looked at you in awe. Maybe you just solved a problem at work no one else could solve. Maybe you debugged some bullshit that the new engineer couldn’t figure out. Whatever it is that you do, remember a time when you just did something amazing and remember that feeling and your confidence level. Then make eye contact.

If you are wondering why you would just come out the cuts and say hello, then remember that no one in the history of mankind has thought, “Why is this person saying hello to me?” People, by nature, are friendly.

If they don’t share as much enthusiasm, then that’s ok. Maybe they are having a bad day. Maybe they just broke up with their boyfriend or girlfriend. Maybe they just tripped an hour ago and spilled coffee on themselves. Don’t naturally assume the worst and think you suck. In fact, you may suck at this in the beginning, but so what? Sucking at something is the first sorta sign that you are starting to get good. 

If you feel that this isn’t the real you and you aren’t sure if this is genuine then fake it till you make it. Since no one can tell how you feel or what you are thinking, but only what you decide to show them.

Level 3

Give a compliment. This is your money maker. This is where anything you said before this doesn’t matter. Why? Because people love to talk about themselves. The more you talk about them the more appealing you become. It’s science people. If it’s a guy, compliment him on his shirt. If it’s a girl, compliment her on her hair.

If you are wondering why you would give someone random you don’t know a compliment, then ask yourself, why not? Should we all just walk around this planet and not talk to each other? If that’s the case, I rather live on Mars.

If you believe it’s weird to just say something nice to someone who hasn’t done any good for you, then remember that if you are constantly putting pride as your barrier you won’t make progress. “My way or the highway,” is the lonely way.

If you are still trippin after all of this, then remember that a hundred years from now, everyone you know (including yourself) will be dead. Nothing you did yesterday, will do today or plan to do tomorrow will matter or stop you from dying. Everyday you come up with nonsense in your mind, you are getting older. Remember this and I promise you will start to give a shit less and form the habits you want for life. 

12 horas atrás, lukao1993 disse:

Sinto muito, mas acho que você não se livrou do vício ainda, apenas o contraiu um pouco. Creio que você consegue apenas se segurar mais pois sabe que após os 15 dias vai ter a recompensa.

 

tem uns niveis de poderes, tem um carisma extra que só começa depois do dia 20/22, ou no fim da parte ruim que começa lá pro dia 15 a 18

Editado Novembro 28, 2015 às 13:06 por planeta

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6 minutos atrás, Buldoguii disse:

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tu vai cair hoje a noite

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47 minutos atrás, GhostGainer disse:

tu vai cair hoje a noite

Minha testo já subiu em 200% , n vou desperdiçar isso.