Como Ser Alpha?

[lukao1993 1329]

Em 6/17/2016 at 09:47, Fabricius disse:

Ele confessou que o sonho dele é arrumar a Thalita Zampirolli como namoradinha

 

Isso é um transexual?

 

 

 

 

 

 

[cormaya 271]

5 horas atrás, lukao1993 disse:

Isso é um transexual?

 nunca pensei que diria isso mas... eu comia esse cara, na boa

 

 

 

[FSgtLima 35]

Pra ser alpha, tem que ficar no meio dessa multidão:

 

[lukao1993 1329]

2 horas atrás, cormaya disse:

 nunca pensei que diria isso mas... eu comia esse cara, na boa

 

Ah velho, sei lá hein... Mesmo assim eu não iria

 

Fora que o "acabamento" ali deve ser um negócio estranho

[enebt 2372]

Texto mt bom, principalmente pros que estão ou ainda vão chegar nos 20

Qualquer coisa usa google tradutor.

 

Summary:

As a twenty-something guy who isn't usually that open to reading a self-help book written by a woman, I have to say that this one is legit. I am going to say that alongside some of the works the red pill has recommended (No More Mr. Nice Guy for example), this book needs to be read by all 20 something guys, especially those out of college. While I do support it, there is one major part of this book I disagree with.

The Defining Decade:

The book itself is right here and this is the Ted Talks for those of you who want to hear it.

So instead of doing a post on how to get hot white girls as a brown guy (that is for another time), I am going to do one for all guys in their 20s. Given that there are a sizable number of 20 somethings on this sub, I decided to make a thread exclusively for them.

I've seen a lot of bad advice given to 20 somethings and cheesy stuff saying how "30 is the new 20". Now while it is widely understood on TRP that male SMV goes up after 30 while female SMV goes down, I do think that there your 20s are an important decade of your entire life. Maybe I am in my 20s and saying that but having talked to many older guys, they agree. You just cannot drift by in your 20s, you must lay the ground work for a successful life and a successful future. I think that guys are making a huge mistake by thinking of their 20s as a time to just let life pass itself by and everything will work itself out. Advice given to 20 somethings about how "you're young and have so much time" is also bad advice, you don't have much time!

Work:

You have to get on it as soon as possible. If you're one of those kids who immediately put the groundwork in at college and broke into high finance right after graduation or made it into professional school (med school, dental school, etc.), you're on the right track. On the other hand, if you have no idea of what you want to do in your 20s, you better get one! One of the quotes in this book said that the 30s are no time to start a career at all. The "work" section of the book is where I was sold on it, just made so much sense. You can put some things on hold as a man but career is not one of those things.

We talk a lot about a "high SMV" and money being a huge part of it, it is time you get on that! If you're 18 and entering college, pick the right major and keep that GPA above a 3.5. On the other hand, if you already finished college with some bad grades, it is time to set up a serious recovery plan! Wall Street Playboys has a lot of good material on this sort of stuff!!!

Love:

I disagree with Dr. Jay on this part of the book, all of it actually. Since it is written by a woman, she will be telling a lot of people to find their partners by the end of their 20s but I do not think that is necessary. A lot of the crowd on here is against having kids or getting married so this part won't help out too much. I cannot comment on your dating options being less in their 30s than 20s as I am not in my 30s yet.

The Brain and the Body:

The other good part of the book, talks about how you are going to go through some critical changes in your 20s. How the 20s are your time to go from being a low confidence beta male to turning it around and how it becomes so much more difficult after that. Talks about how 20 year olds need to really change their way of thinking about life and how they plan for it. Goes into detail about how to make your goals for your life come true in your 20s and how to plan properly for them. Get this, 80% of your life experiences have happened by the time you are 35.

My thoughts as a guy in his 20s.

I loved the book, it has been one of the best books I have read in a long long time as a guy on the later end of his 20s. Now that being said, there are some issues I myself struggle with even after reading this book. Yes, I do think it is important to work on career and development but at times I fear about missing out.

Is life ever going to be as exciting as it was in my 20s?

Am I ever going to have a chance to have such a vibrant social life and party with some good friends and some cute girls again?

Am I ever going to have this much energy to pursue things I care about and enjoy life along the way?

Who knows, I will let you guys chime in.

Lessons learned:

1 - You need to read the Defining Decade by Dr. Meg Jay.

2 - You need to get on top of building your career and finding your purpose NOW! Wall Street Playboys has a lot of good material on this.

3 - You would be better off ignoring the part of the book talking about love.

4 - You need to really invest some serious time on yourself in your 20s rather than letting them waste away.

[lucasf21 1673]

vale a pena pagar GP?

Spoiler

 

Editado Junho 19, 2016 às 15:32 por lucasf21

[FrangoEctomorfo 7251]

13 minutos atrás, lucasf21 disse:

vale a pena pagar GP?

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Toda mulher é GP. Com a profissional, você ganha tempo, dinheiro e não se estressa.

[lucasf21 1673]

Agora, FrangoEctomorfo disse:

 

Toda mulher é GP. Com a profissional, você ganha tempo, dinheiro e não se estressa.

mas querendo ou não isso não vsi satisfazer meu ego =/

[MrCrowley 1385]

45 minutos atrás, lucasf21 disse:

vale a pena pagar GP?

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Acho que depende da frequência que vc come uma ""civil"". Se vc transa com minas normais com frequência não vejo porque pagar uma profissional.

 

Agora, se vc não come ninguém, que é o caso da maioria dos homens, acho que vale a pena sim. Putas são sempre um poço de sabedoria, bagagem e know-how. Vc paga por uma foda mas ganha foda + experiência.

[enebt 2372]

51 minutos atrás, lucasf21 disse:

vale a pena pagar GP?

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Se você tem dinheiro e quer "comer bem", pague ué

Não tem essa de valer a pena ou não, você que diz se vale ou não vale